TIPS TO BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE AND SELF DISCOVERY

Lets drive to the meaning of the term confidence.

Confidence is the ability to perform to a certain standards. It is synonymous to self assuredness. Confidence is also seen as the belief in the ability of other people.

UNCOVERING YOUR CONFIDENCE

Most people lack self confidence because they failed to direct or connect to what is important to them.  When you connect yourself to what is important to you and what you value. People failed to believe in themselves because they consider what other people think about them more prominence than what they think about themselves.

Another factor to consider is comparisons. Before you uncover your confidence you must avoid comparing yourself unfavorably with others. Never feel you can’t be as good as someone. Believe in yourself, see yourself ad a leader in your own world and one day people will recognize you. But it must start from you. Believe that you are going to be successful and surround yourself with people who support and believe in you.

Building confidence starts with going with your strength and what you are good at. For confidence to thrive you must concentrate your attention in your potentials rather than turning yourself into what you are not.

Questions that will enable you build your confidence.

1.       What am I good at?

2.       When have you seen me operate at my best?

3.       What should I do more of?

4.       What should I do less of?

5.       What can you rely on me for?

6.       What do you think I can improve on myself?

These above questions should be asked to your close friends and people you can confide on. After gathering feedbacks, you should be able to find actions you can put in place to encourage the talents and potentials. Find also ways to improve on your skills.

HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE

1.       You are always balanced and poised

2.       You are breathing easily without fidgeting

3.       You are always proactive and prepared

4.       You are always on a course of action to accomplish

5.       You are not afraid of whatever life throw at you because you belief you can handle it.

6.       You know that everything will be alright in the end no matter the situation.

IMPORTANCE OF CONFIDENCE

1.       Direction and value: confidence gives you sense of direction and value. You know what you want, where you are going and how to reach your goal.

2.       Motivation: you have a sense of focus and freedom in what you do. Confidence makes you enjoy every bit of what you do and shields you from distraction.

3.       A positive mindset: a confident mind is an optimistic mind. Confidence gives you the ability to see the bright side of every setback and encounter in life.

4.       Self awareness: confidence creates self awareness. You know what you are good at, and how people feel about you. Self confidence makes you know that you are not perfect and that is what makes you a human.

5.       Behavioral flexibility: confidence creates the ability to adapt your behavior easily to any pressing circumstance.

6.       Eagerness to learn and improve: Confidence makes you believe that there are lot of things you have not explored and gives you the eagerness to learn and develop yourself on them and discover new experiences.

7.       Confidence gives you the willingness to take risks and the ability to act in face of uncertainty

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8.     Confidence gives you a sense of purpose and responsibility. You have a purpose for your life and increasing sense of coherence of the different parts of your life.


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